[exploringRM]

We would be reluctant to be with a couple with a lot of rules as well. But while reading this I realized that we've never really talked about rules with a couple. Everyone we've encountered was into full swap and other than condom requirements we've never encountered a no, don't go there situation. Most of our encounters with couples have started with an online contact, both of us attending the same event, let's get to know each other, etc. I typically check the online profile for anything that would make us say no: no kissing, girls play together but guy can't play with girl, etc. And if the couple is on the soft swap side, understanding how far they want to go...at least some swapping, lol.