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**cplnuswing** · 06-26-2009, 06:54 PM

I'm guess #1 with some of #3 rolled in there too. Is it possible he has concerns about finding the right balance during the MFM. He wants to play with her again, and to do that has expressed interest in the MFM (although it's perhaps not his first choice of scenarios), but now is worried about not coming on too strong during the MFM and making you feel left out.

Just reading the words on a screen, it doesn't seem like a really out there question. But, since you heard it with your own ears, if you are feeling something isn't quite right, it probably isn't. It sounds like you have at least the start of a good relationship with this couple and are comfortable with each other, so just ask and see what he says.

Good luck!

06-26-2009, 06:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
cplnuswing Lifestyle Mentor Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 1,372 Location: Georgia Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:gawildstreak	Re: Odd question I'm guess #1 with some of #3 rolled in there too. Is it possible he has concerns about finding the right balance during the MFM. He wants to play with her again, and to do that has expressed interest in the MFM (although it's perhaps not his first choice of scenarios), but now is worried about not coming on too strong during the MFM and making you feel left out. Just reading the words on a screen, it doesn't seem like a really out there question. But, since you heard it with your own ears, if you are feeling something isn't quite right, it probably isn't. It sounds like you have at least the start of a good relationship with this couple and are comfortable with each other, so just ask and see what he says. Good luck!