 Re: Too perfect swing-partner.
JandY,
Can you tell us any more about what you mean?
From your earlier posts, I'm wondering whether you mean the male half of the other couple you swing with. And if that is true, and you still haven't told your wives that you are having M-M sex, you're in a bucketful of you-know-what.
If that's not what's happening, please disregard and accept my apology.
A too-perfect swinging partner? In general, all extenuating circumstances aside, then you should ask your spouse to change things up a little to try some of the things you like with your partner, like slevin said. However, sometimes even that doesn't help. In that case I'd just say enjoy the sex with your partner and your love and sex with your wife. Personally, I don't mind the thought that my husband may have a temporary thing so great with someone else that he thinks she is the greatest sex partner ever. It would be hard to expect one person to be both your life partner and all the rest of it, at the same time, ALL the time.
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