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Old 06-24-2009, 07:22 PM   #13 (permalink)
TheMiddleDoor
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Join Date: Nov 2004
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Location: portsmouth,NH
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TheMiddleDoor gives some great advice
Default Re: Aren't we all adults?

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Originally Posted by good times View Post
A lot of the new swingers club attendees are really not swingers at all. They look at swingers clubs as some kind of titillating risque dance club and have no intention of actually playing with others.
ahh yes..wannabees...

seems like everything that's "fringe" eventually becomes "trendy". this is the same thing that happened to the "fetish clubs" (anyone else remember Manray in the boston area?)

they go home and tell all their friends about how wild their weekend was.."we even went to (gasp!) a swingers club! the people were so weird!"

and, not to be outdone, they all start going...and eventually it's a dance club.

then it isn't trendy anymore and the club dies.

on-premise clubs usually make the "trendy" types too nervous...usually the women think it's too much of a temptation for their men...so they usually don't stay long if they go at all.
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