 Re: Does swinging make us better?
We're better for it. As sweet_tna said...practice makes perfect.
Once we got beyond the mind-blowing excitement of sharing ourselves in such a way, we started looking at the details and studying them.
Mrs. Ekies learned this past Monday night that not all men can take a blow job of the quality that she's becoming famous for like I can. I have a hang-up with coming in a woman's mouth and, as a result, will enjoy a BJ as long as my partner cares to administer. During our conversation about her disappointment with not having the chance to enjoy her partner's large equipment I told her that she needs to be careful with her talents...the poor guy came early and everywhere...and was out for a good while and never recovered enough to get the condom in place.
These are the details that we study to make us better partners for each other and those we chose to share our bed with.
I think we're better now. The improvement is in the details that make for a great experience instead of a good one. I'll take both but would prefer the former and I want and need to leave my partners with a feeling that I was in it for them and me, with the me part being a close second.
Trace
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