Re: Does swinging make us better?
For us it has seemed to make us better ....well, at lots of things. We feel like once a couple has opened up to the level that we have with each other we can talk about anything...not just sex stuff...but it seems like we tell each other even more than before about our day, our work, our feelings. Hard to explain but sometimes I feel like I can tell him how something made me feel even if it was a "stupid" feeling and he seems to listen more.
And as far as our one on one sex life...it has always been off the charts and fulfilling ...but when we are alone again after being with another couple it just seems like we are closer somehow...it is not that we "learned" any new sex technique....but we are just better and better..
probably does not make much sense cause it is so hard to verbalize these things sometimes.
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