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Old 06-23-2009, 05:57 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Default Re: Am I being a control-freak?

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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 View Post
Why the heck would your wife go out "socially" by herself with this guy, and you and her not think it was going to lead to sex, especially since you already knew this guy's intent was to play with your wife, AND you and your wife already decided it was okay if she played with him?

I think your wife had sex with him. That's my take, and she's not willing to admit it (for some reason) but wants to fuck him again.

LM
Well maybe, but maybe not. If they didn't, I think it's headed that way. Losing track of time until 4am? No way, not possible. Caught up in the moment? Yes. If they didn't sleep together, it's headed that way. IMO, she's way too into this guy....And you say the last one ended badly? Maybe she really wants this one to not end that way, and is enjoying it a little too much.

Time for some down-home talking. Bottom line: if you are in any way uncomfortable with this, she needs to respect you and your opinion and back it down. You already know swinging or open relationships ONLY succeed with the utmost respect, trust, and communication. This is headed down the path of losing at least 2 of those.

Mrs. NC
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