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Ripley & Ender · 06-23-2009, 03:57 PM

Honestly, losing track of time has been one of our biggest issues too: Ripley tracks time. Ender doesn't.

After multiple bad aftermaths, Ender has realized how important this is to Ripley and keeps in much better touch now.

If EITHER ONE of us were feeling rocky about a meetup, neither of us would let one drink turn into four hours. That's basic consideration for your partner. And if one drink = four hours without notice or communication, why would it ever be okay with you for them to "have lunch" when you know that "have lunch" could turn into "shag like mad" just as easily as "one drink" turned into "lost track of time"?

06-23-2009, 03:57 PM	#6 (permalink)
Ripley & Ender Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 21 Location: ohio Status: Couple	Re: Am I being a control-freak? Honestly, losing track of time has been one of our biggest issues too: Ripley tracks time. Ender doesn't. After multiple bad aftermaths, Ender has realized how important this is to Ripley and keeps in much better touch now. If EITHER ONE of us were feeling rocky about a meetup, neither of us would let one drink turn into four hours. That's basic consideration for your partner. And if one drink = four hours without notice or communication, why would it ever be okay with you for them to "have lunch" when you know that "have lunch" could turn into "shag like mad" just as easily as "one drink" turned into "lost track of time"?