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2bNakie · 06-22-2009, 07:19 PM

I didn't know where else to put this, so I posted it here.

We've recently started going to clubs again, and have been invited to some parties hosted at clubs. We have met some nice couples, but what we started noticing is that they would seem interested and talk to us at the event we first met them at, and would be ignored at any further events, as well as any emails being ignored.

Now, I can understand that not everyone is going to be interested in everybody. But it seems like these people are all in the same 'group' of long-time friends - and all of a sudden, anyone associated with them is ignoring us, some to the point of being rude. It's almost as if someone decided they didn't like us, and wanted to make sure everybody else didn't like us too.

Perhaps it shows the character of the rest of the people in these groups, and has a silver lining in that it has weeded out a bunch of people we'd rather not associate with anyway. The disappointing part is that it has weeded out a ton of people that frequent the clubs that we liked going to.

I thought we all left High School years ago. It's been 17 years for me, and I have no desire to go back.

06-22-2009, 07:19 PM	#1 (permalink)
2bNakie Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 10 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Aren't we all adults? I didn't know where else to put this, so I posted it here. We've recently started going to clubs again, and have been invited to some parties hosted at clubs. We have met some nice couples, but what we started noticing is that they would seem interested and talk to us at the event we first met them at, and would be ignored at any further events, as well as any emails being ignored. Now, I can understand that not everyone is going to be interested in everybody. But it seems like these people are all in the same 'group' of long-time friends - and all of a sudden, anyone associated with them is ignoring us, some to the point of being rude. It's almost as if someone decided they didn't like us, and wanted to make sure everybody else didn't like us too. Perhaps it shows the character of the rest of the people in these groups, and has a silver lining in that it has weeded out a bunch of people we'd rather not associate with anyway. The disappointing part is that it has weeded out a ton of people that frequent the clubs that we liked going to. I thought we all left High School years ago. It's been 17 years for me, and I have no desire to go back.