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Originally Posted by two4youinswva  Add me to the list that wouldn't mind a bit if I couldn't receive oral. |
Add me too. If receiving oral sex happens, then fine, but it isn't an integral part of the experience for me and whether or not it happens doesn't make it a good or bad experience overall.
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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie How important do you feel that oral sex is in swinging? IMO, it's pretty important (which is part of why we are backing off). I just can't imagine swinging without it. |
From the range of the responses, like many things to do with swinging, it appears this is one of those "depends who you ask" type questions. For some, it's important, for others, not so much.
I think your last statement pretty much sums it up - if it is an important part of the experience for you, but you know up front it is not an option right now, then you go into any potential experience with two strikes against you from the start in terms of it being a good one that you would enjoy. If you know up front you won't enjoy it since oral is off the table, then why set yourself up against such long odds?