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knb2004 · 06-21-2009, 06:35 PM

Interesting thread, I don't think I've read this one before.

I can somewhat relate to the OP, as I was in a previous marriage that was sexually bland. That was not the only reason it broke up, as it should have even were the sex good, but it was high on the list. However, one thing I realized as I got older and wiser (early 30's) is that these ideas I had about sexual monogamy being undesirable was not something I had to hide. When I was younger I was convinced I was a total freak, and frankly did not even admit my proclivities even to myself. When I finally opened my eyes, I was fortunate that my marriage sucked outside the bedroom, and it was easy for me to end it and start anew.

Wonder how I might have felt were that not true?

06-21-2009, 06:35 PM	#68 (permalink)
knb2004 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 311 Location: NYC Status: M. Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:knb2004	Re: Any Men Whose Wives Refuse to Even Consider Swinging? Interesting thread, I don't think I've read this one before. I can somewhat relate to the OP, as I was in a previous marriage that was sexually bland. That was not the only reason it broke up, as it should have even were the sex good, but it was high on the list. However, one thing I realized as I got older and wiser (early 30's) is that these ideas I had about sexual monogamy being undesirable was not something I had to hide. When I was younger I was convinced I was a total freak, and frankly did not even admit my proclivities even to myself. When I finally opened my eyes, I was fortunate that my marriage sucked outside the bedroom, and it was easy for me to end it and start anew. Wonder how I might have felt were that not true?