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planejanesusan · 06-21-2009, 01:10 AM

I was a very promiscuous single swinger who gave it up 21 years ago for marriage and raising children but am anticipating getting back into swinging with my husband along (probably as a non-participating voyeur because of ED problems). I am trying to find out as much as I can about modern swinging so our experiences will be as enjoyable as possible and would appreciate all the help I can get..

In my college days I became extremely addicted to cunnilingus, and I need at least one orgasm that way before I am ready for PIV sex. In those days douching was very popular - in fact, after I became sexually active at sixteen my mom bought me my first syringe and taught me how to mix medically correct solutions - and I always douched before an evening of casual sex. I know douching, or at least frequent douching, is considered unnecessary and potentially harmful, and since I have seen no mention of it in this forum as a preparation for a swinging evening I assume no one here does it these days. Am I correct or is douching still a nice prep for oral sex, especially with someone new?

06-21-2009, 01:10 AM	#1 (permalink)
planejanesusan Registered Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 8 Location: Southern Cal Status: couple	Douching I was a very promiscuous single swinger who gave it up 21 years ago for marriage and raising children but am anticipating getting back into swinging with my husband along (probably as a non-participating voyeur because of ED problems). I am trying to find out as much as I can about modern swinging so our experiences will be as enjoyable as possible and would appreciate all the help I can get.. In my college days I became extremely addicted to cunnilingus, and I need at least one orgasm that way before I am ready for PIV sex. In those days douching was very popular - in fact, after I became sexually active at sixteen my mom bought me my first syringe and taught me how to mix medically correct solutions - and I always douched before an evening of casual sex. I know douching, or at least frequent douching, is considered unnecessary and potentially harmful, and since I have seen no mention of it in this forum as a preparation for a swinging evening I assume no one here does it these days. Am I correct or is douching still a nice prep for oral sex, especially with someone new?