Original thread here for those needing to reference it.
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Originally Posted by JustAskJulie  I think there is a certain amount of peer pressure when two couples are playing (swapping) for both couples to be doing the same things. |
I agree with this. I can recall a few times early on when I'd be performing oral, then look over and see that Mrs two4you and her partner had already moved on to intercourse. I'd think to myself "Hey, I'm just getting warmed up here!". It took a few times of playing for me to relax and just do our own thing, no matter what was happening on the other side of the bed or room.