 Re: Keeping down with the Jones?
I think there is a certain amount of peer pressure when two couples are playing (swapping) for both couples to be doing the same things. Ideally each couple should be able to focus on their own playmate and not be paying attention to the other couple playing. That would be the most enjoyable, imo. But, I think especially for newbies they want to "fit in" so they watch what their partner is doing with the other person (or the other person is doing to their partner) and feel the need to keep up.
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