[thor-in-vegas]

i would like to thank everyone very much for their responses so far.

everyone has been very insightful!

THE FUSE- i want to thank you for your honesty. you probably already know this, but real men find the individuality of every woman sexy. i for one find every type of woman sexy.

TNT- by "taking one for the team" i meant that if you said yes to letting your man play with her, but it really bothered you inside, that would be taking one for the team.

MRSFUN and JUSTASKJULIE- please tell me why you would feel differently if the person in question was part of a couple or was single.
i'm guessing its because the single woman might be looking for more than just sex, but isn't this an issue any time you play with a single female?
i'm curious why the woman's looks are an issue in this situation?

please respond, i feel i can learn a lot from your responses.


LIZANDTOM- thanks for chiming in! i have made that same sort of mistake in the past, and i think you hit the nail on the head regarding what would bother a woman about this.


thanks to all who've responded so far. keep 'em coming! (pun intended LOL)
thor