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Originally Posted by thor-in-vegas  hello ladies!
do you get jealous if the woman your man wants to play with is "hotter" than you in your opinion?
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No I don't. My self esteem and the confidence I feel in not only myself but in the fact that Ted thinks I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread, is just too high...there's just no room left to be jealous over a woman who I feel is hotter than I am.
Our last swinging encounter was with a young couple...the female half was extremely hot. I think I was more tickled that Ted got to play with her than he was.
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if thats how you feel, then at least tell me why the other woman's looks make you feel that you are taking one for the team.
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I'm not sure I understand this statement.
If it's a couple we're playing with and she's hot but he's not, I could then see how it may seem like you were taking one for the team but...if she's hot and he's hot, how's that taking one for the team? If it's a single female then definitely not taking one for the team...even if I don't get to play with her I'm at least getting to watch Ted play with her and help her play with Ted.
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have any of you experienced ladies ever told your man "no" and given him a different reason when in truth it was because of the physical appearance of the other woman?
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Nope. If there's a reason I don't want him playing with her I'm going to tell him. The only reason I can think of that I wouldn't want him playing with a woman is if I felt she didn't understand swinging...i.e. I felt she was hoping for something more to come about than just sex.
Teresa