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Originally Posted by thor-in-vegas  do you get jealous if the woman your man wants to play with is "hotter" than you in your opinion?
even if he reassures you over and over that you are the hottest thing in the world to him; does it affect how OK you are with the situation?
im trying to learn about what goes on in a woman's heart, so please dont just give me the rote, "dont take one for the team" answer.
if thats how you feel, then at least tell me why the other woman's looks make you feel that you are taking one for the team.
have any of you experienced ladies ever told your man "no" and given him a different reason when in truth it was because of the physical appearance of the other woman? |
Actually, I think this is a very good question. And no, I really don't get jealous if Mr. Sweet wants to play with a woman hotter than me. And yes, he has played with women like this. I was very happy for him, actually, because I know what an ego boost it is to have someone that you feel is attractive return the interest.
Heck, before we began swinging, I'd brush it off when he told me I was sexy/hot/beautiful because
he's my husband. He's supposed to think that. It wasn't 'till I realized other men saw me that way that I began to really believe it. I figure the same holds true for him.
And of course, however much he's "into" her and however much she rocks his world . . . he's still coming home with me. I figure if he still wants me after playing with Ms. Hottie, then I can take that as a pretty damn good compliment.
So no, I've never denied my honey the chance to play with another woman because she's "too hot". We're all in this for the variety, right?
=)