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bellsandwhistle · 06-17-2009, 10:57 PM

We've had a couple play dates, so far, and we're still very new to the lifestyle.

It was nice to play with an experienced couple, as it didn't take all night for someone to make the first move. I'm sure if we were both newbies, it could have been the wee hours of the a.m. before anyone had the nerve.

I joked with them that we were glad they popped our cherry. The had been in the lifestyle for years and made us feel very comfortable and sexy.

Since we've had another play date, we're much more comfortable now and feel as though we can read the signs....for the most part. I'm comfortable as the initiator.

I don't know that we're ready to engage with total newbies yet, but maybe later on we will.

06-17-2009, 10:57 PM	#28 (permalink)
bellsandwhistle Active Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 32 Location: Massachusetts Status: Couple	Re: Newbies: Who would you rather play with? We've had a couple play dates, so far, and we're still very new to the lifestyle. It was nice to play with an experienced couple, as it didn't take all night for someone to make the first move. I'm sure if we were both newbies, it could have been the wee hours of the a.m. before anyone had the nerve. I joked with them that we were glad they popped our cherry. The had been in the lifestyle for years and made us feel very comfortable and sexy. Since we've had another play date, we're much more comfortable now and feel as though we can read the signs....for the most part. I'm comfortable as the initiator. I don't know that we're ready to engage with total newbies yet, but maybe later on we will.