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Originally Posted by slevin  That said, does it really matter whether there is a risk of the single man or woman getting attached or wanting more? If you and your husband/boyfriend are confident in your relationship, deeply in love and committed to each other, does it matter what the other people think? If someone starts showing signs of getting attached then agree you will end things right away. Now, this is said with no direct experience of this on my part as we've not met up with anyone on our own at all. |
I definitely think that the both of us would want to avoid any kind of encounter that might end up hurting another person emotionally.
You make a good point though! If he felt that there was any danger of attachment or competition from the woman, I feel very confident that he would consult me and would want to discuss the possible repercussions of the hook-up before we planned for anything to actually happen. He says that, no matter who he's with, it would ultimately be about us - that our relationship would be at the center of any play and it comes first, above all.
It feels really nice to think about it that way! Thank you!