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I guess my question is, has anyone else had a similar experience? Do you think this ideal situation of mine could possibly solve the problem? How do swingers deal with jealousy? Women, does sharing your partner with other women ever make you feel insecure in yourself and how do you deal with it? How can you learn to enjoy it?
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I have tried alone play, but Mr. Sweet has not. I'm actually hoping that he WILL decide to give it a try, though.
I think what you need to do is sit down and share this thread with him, and talk to him about how you feel. If he's agreeable and interested in playing with other couples, then go for it. Perhaps "getting used" to him having sex with other women in this manner may ultimately make you comfortable enough to consider letting him play alone--even if it's with the lady half of a couple you know and trust.
Jealousy really isn't an issue for us, but we'd treat it like any other issue we might face. We'd talk openly and honestly with each other until we worked it out.
Best of luck to you,
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