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mrfunfan · 06-17-2009, 01:45 PM

Classic, you sound like my wife. This is such a gender difference and dilemma in are relationship. We love each other so much and it really turns me on fantasizing and thinking about my wife and it makes me feel warm and fuzzy and really close to her when I can share those fantasies with her. However, she doesn't like hearing about my fantasizes because it usually makes her sad, jealous and angry.

Trust that your man is sharing them with you because it makes him feel closer to you. I fantasize about sex, not love, and I am guilty of not knowing how much and when to share them. I'm curious to find out more from you too so I can understand more.

06-17-2009, 01:45 PM	#3 (permalink)
mrfunfan Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 32 Location: Los Angeles Status: Couple	Re: Help - Getting Used to Your Partner Being With Someone Else Classic, you sound like my wife. This is such a gender difference and dilemma in are relationship. We love each other so much and it really turns me on fantasizing and thinking about my wife and it makes me feel warm and fuzzy and really close to her when I can share those fantasies with her. However, she doesn't like hearing about my fantasizes because it usually makes her sad, jealous and angry. Trust that your man is sharing them with you because it makes him feel closer to you. I fantasize about sex, not love, and I am guilty of not knowing how much and when to share them. I'm curious to find out more from you too so I can understand more.