Agilitybabe....YOUR ATTITUDE IS SWINGING MUST INVOLVE BI-SEXUALITY. I don't know why you infered this from Quin's response....maybe I missed something, but I don't think this is what she was saying. I can understand that from your perspective(not bi) that you viewed sexual activity as that between opposite sexes....that is just your point of reference, and is understandable. Quin's point of reference tends to include both sexes, but I don't think she was saying that swinging had to include bi-sexuality to be called swinging. The bottom line is, if it's a man or a woman, if it isn't your spouse or SO, it's swinging or cheating depending on whether your spouse/SO is aware of the activity, or is in the dark about it. If my wife hooked up with another girl without my knowledge or approval, or hooked up with a guy, it would still be cheating. If she hooked up with another girl or guy, and I was right there cheering them on, then this would fulfill my definition of swinging...any sexual activity envolving someone other than your partner with their knowledge and approval.It's really all about fantasy filfullment and erotic exploration together as a couple, rather than the lying, cheating and deciet that tends to destroy so many good marriages over a quick thrill. Life is way too short to be filled with sexual frustration, but without complete trust, love and communication, all that's left is cheating. Sportync
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