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Originally Posted by cocpl2007  Novice swing couples, early on into the experience, seem to yearn toward more (just #'s) experiences. It seems that the "seasoned" swinging couples we encounter, are not interested so much in the quantity of the couples with whom they share sexual play, rather adding "an" additional couple to their experience. |
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I found this part of cocpl2007's post interesting, as we have found the opposite to be true more than not in the people we've met, at least when it comes to new couples. We find new couples to be more tentative and more interested in being "friends first" as opposed to being interested in numbers.
And just recently, we've had some seasoned swinger friends who seemed interested in knowing how many couples we've been with. The implication was that there comes some number when we've been with "too many" to seem palatable to them. WTF? Or maybe they were just being nosy.
The way I see it, if you've been active in swinging for long enough, you're going to accumulate numbers. And that's not a bad thing, nor a good thing. It just is. The important thing is the quality of the experience with each couple, not how many other partners they've had.