[cocpl2007]

Julie makes a very good point (as is usual)! Over the years the numbers seem to dim, and the "quantity" is not something ever reflected upon in specific numbers. Like Julie, too, I suspect, we have no trouble remembering the great ones, and even the ones we'd like the opportunity to repeat... again, a time or three.

Novice swing couples, early on into the experience, seem to yearn toward more (just #'s) experiences. It seems that the "seasoned" swinging couples we encounter, are not interested so much in the quantity of the couples with whom they share sexual play, rather adding "an" additional couple to their experience. With some it is "the more the merrier" and with some it is "the merrier with just the right couple"

Mrs Co and I met a little less than a decade ago. We both had prior marriages. We both were "mature" singles for a time. I was quite a bit more sexually active (in terms of #'s) than Mrs. Co. We did have enough experience and experiences that we knew we wanted to experience the rest of what life has to offer as a married couple. Some of what "life has to offer" is the sexual play with other married couples. Neither of us are interested or focused whatsoever in attaining more #'s of sexual partners, rather our focus is locating/discovering that special couple interested in the erotic exploration of a mutually satisfying friendship.

Now having said all that... we answered your poll

Mrs. Co < 10
Mr. Co < 50 > 30