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Beginners,

One thing that I think is the most important (yes discretion is important) is communication. You are two separate individuals and have different thoughts. If you havent been the "Devil's Advocate" to one another you will not be prepared when an awkward moment arises.

If you havent asked each other a million "what if's" you are wrong. This will help determine your boundaries and what is acceptable to the left and right of it.

I am a single guy and enjoy couples. I like to ask the couple tons of "what if's"

What if I kiss the lady? Is that something that is too intimate to be shared?
What if I ejaculate during oral....What are the boundaries?
What if I dont seem up to par when we meet at coffee?
What if someone feels uncomfortable during "game time"
What if you feel a stray hand in the dark and cant determine exact ownership?
What if she is left speechless by his great performance?
What is he "larger" or has better stamina than the Mr?

I could go on for days, and every couple will answer differently to these questions and scenarios...

Communicate Communicate Communicate!

Then when its over...be truthful in what was good, and bad...and other..

Kyle