Ahhh,the differance of swinging versus cheating is right my alley considering what happened last few months.
First,to me,swinging is the freedom to express yourself in anyway to the opposite sex AS LONG AS SPOUSE KNOWS AND APPROVES...
Cheating is doing everything behind his back without his knowledge.And what is worse is not even letting the other guy know you are married too.With Mike's recent cheating a few months ago he met someone who he wanted to become friends with because she was cute.No problem if he had confided in me and even let her know he was married.But he didn't.It's over and done with because she got too weird and possessive.But through talks he told me he thoght because we were swingers it was o.k. to fool around outside the marriage.I told him,to me,the big mistake is not telling me he met someone attractive and letting me meet her,and he didn't tell her he was married.Since the ordeal and the fact she found out he's married,she still says she wants to date him but he says NO.She's more of the type(non swinging),who would try to break the marriage and not share.So to me swinging is sharing yourself to the opposite sex in anyway with knowledge and approval of spouse and all parties involved.
Mike & Sue
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