Sorry Julie , its amazing what one letter can do , lets change NOW to NOT
Does this mean there not swingers ? i dont think so .
The point is this , some one that does full swap may say your not a swinger unless you do full swap , but to those who do the cyber sex stuff , they would fit the discreption of doing " somthing " out side of there normal relatoinship .
Some time ago , before we were envolved with the life style i seen a piece on TV , cam's on the pc , each couple was having sex and letting the other couple watch , to me this would be some form of swinging .
M