To me swinging encompases any sexual activity envolving people other than your significient other, with their(so) knowledge and approval. If they don't know about it, or don't approve of the behavior, then it falls in the realm of cheating. I think that swinging is the opportunity to explore your fantasies and those of your s.o. in a loving, sharing way, thus allowing the one you love to experience sexual activities beyond the scope of your own relationship. Face it, there are many erotic and pleasurable activities that can be enjoyed by a number of people, that just can't happen with only two. Swinging allows us the chance to explore new things together that we would otherwise only dream about. And with love, trust, devotion and a lot of communication, there is little that can't be achieved, provided you find the right people to help you along on the adventure. It's like taking a vacation from the arbitrary rules placed on you by the community in which you live. Noone has the right to tell you how you should behave sexually except the person or people with whom you are dealing with at that particular point in time. Unless they are in your bed, it's really none of their business, so why should they be allowed to set the rules you must live by, while they themselves are probably balling the secretary or the gardner behind the back of the one they claim to love and cherish.
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