This actually a great thread that should be recycled..
The OP, asked:
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If you could pick one important piece of advice that you wish YOU had known when you were a beginner, what would it be?
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What is one rule that nobody ever really talks about but everyone figures out eventually (for example, men don't advertise bisexuality in swinger's clubs because they will get shunned)?
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The one piece of advice is that You proceed at the pace of the slowest person in the group, and Communication is key, between all parties involved.
We have had encounters where we all were ready to go somewhere private, but no one spoke up. The kicker is, it was a restaurant with a hotel attached.
The other most important piece of advice is relax, and know what you are comfortable with. Never take one for the team, or allow yourself to be put in an uncomfortable postion, figuratively or litterly