I think it's like anything that people have strong opinions about. They don't understand why someone else feels differently.
That's the main reason I started this thread (and I'm hoping a few more people will post to it), is to get people to express why they feel the way they do about it and perhaps help others to understand their reasoning as well (whether or not they agree with it).
As for our personal answer and the one that I apply here on the board (to some extent). I believe that anything that a couple does involving people outside their relationship is swinging. Whether they are involving a single or another couples or 10 other couples. Whether they are actually together while they are doing it or have agreed to allow each other to play in private. So long as both partners are aware of what is going on and agree to it.
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