Why does the definition of what is swinging cause so much consternation on this board? And why are people so insistent that their definition of swinging is right?
For us, it is about doing what makes us happy, regardless of the number and/or status of the people involved. Granted, we have guidelines we go by (no couples that are not seriously involved, no attached men without their S/O, etc.), but that is just us.
If a single guy wants to call himself a swinger, fine. If a man wants to swing without his S/O, with or without her knowledge/permission, then that is his prerogative. We may not agree with it, but it isn't our life.
Of course, that's just my opinion, and I can certainly be wrong.
-Mark
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