[JustAskJulie]

I have often said that there are as many definitions of swinging as their are swingers. Everyone has their own view of what is swinging and what is not.

For some single males can not be swingers and for others they can be. For some swinging must involve two couples. For others still it must involve full swap for intercourse and anything less is not swinging.

So tell us what your definition of swinging is. What qualifies and what doesn't. And why do you feel that way?

This isn't about getting into a debate over what is and isn't, it's just about getting an idea of various people's points of view.