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Old 06-04-2009, 06:31 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Third time's "not" a charm

Hello Again, we are wroking in chronological order.. read the other post first, lol

Now then, lets look at this with some new eyes. You were new to this adventure, you went to the club, three nights running.. and each night you played..If not only for the thrill of being watched, You both had great nights, ALL THREE NIGHTS reagardless.. Which, is more than some do after YEARS of going to clubs.

Now, another honest statement Our fellow SB members will eacho is, there are some the end up being "cliquey" If they dont know you, some will flat out rudely tell new folks to" Move Along, nothing to see here".. Which usually illicits a louder answer from me, " You are AB-SO-LUTE-LY right".... ( And yes it has to be said with emphisis on each syllable)

But getting back to what you expereinced, while its everyones choice to give people another chance, in reality, given that your wife didnt hit it off with the other husband, its best that things didnt get too far.

Remember, when attempting to play as a foursome, you are dealing with the personal tastes/preferences of each member of the party.. If you remember dating, finding one person to hit it off with is often hard enough, now you are trying to fill the criteria of four people.. Not always going to happen.

But also remember.... Sometimes it does
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