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The Fuse · 06-02-2009, 10:11 AM

Nah, you're not the only ones. We see lots of profiles that say "no anal", and we talk to lots of people who don't do it.

I guess you could say I'm trying to find it a turn-on currently. Like you, I've noticed a lot of women writing about how much they like it, and have also talked to a few. We are trying to work it in (pun intended) in the hopes that after trying it a few more times, I'll start to enjoy it. I have a playmate who wants to do it with me, and it's okay with my husband as long as we try it together again first. I want to make this playmate happy (he certainly makes me happy), and there's nothing wrong with expanding my comfort zone (another pun) in the process, right?

But ultimately we'll see. And as I said before, I feel confident that lots of people simply don't enjoy it.

06-02-2009, 10:11 AM	#2 (permalink)
The Fuse Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse	Re: Does anybody else find anal a turn-off? Nah, you're not the only ones. We see lots of profiles that say "no anal", and we talk to lots of people who don't do it. I guess you could say I'm trying to find it a turn-on currently. Like you, I've noticed a lot of women writing about how much they like it, and have also talked to a few. We are trying to work it in (pun intended) in the hopes that after trying it a few more times, I'll start to enjoy it. I have a playmate who wants to do it with me, and it's okay with my husband as long as we try it together again first. I want to make this playmate happy (he certainly makes me happy), and there's nothing wrong with expanding my comfort zone (another pun) in the process, right? But ultimately we'll see. And as I said before, I feel confident that lots of people simply don't enjoy it.
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