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Originally Posted by The Fuse  Do you think those who don't have a desire to hear details are trying to avoid those bitter moments? Because hearing the details of my husband's exploits doesn't make me feel remotely bad... it just doesn't turn me on that much, so I don't necessarily seek out those details. If it turned him on to tell me, or vice versa, we'd do it and relish it. It's just not a motivator.... but it's not a negative either. I'd call it a mild turn-on for me. We get our jollies in other ways. |
I think that's basically what I'm curious about with this thread in the first place. In the grand scheme of things it's a turn on to know our significant others are feeling pleasure and giving it as well. Some people may have "moments" where not EVERY single detail is such a turn on. Or, in fact, could bring on those humanly natured reactions for a bit. Let's face it, especially when we were first starting this we had to undo years of society's teaching that we SHOULDN'T like this sort of thing. It's just my take on it.