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Originally Posted by swvacouplelookn  I am sure you're absolutely right. There can be some bittersweet moments with all of this. Some of us have more bitter moments than others in the LS. The sweet definitely outweighs the bitter for those of us who continue to enjoy it. But, for each of us there is a differing amount and cause for the bitter at times, right? I suppose that's human nature as well as years of vanilla conditioning. |
Do you think those who don't have a desire to hear details are trying to avoid those bitter moments? Because hearing the details of my husband's exploits doesn't make me feel remotely bad... it just doesn't turn me on that much, so I don't necessarily seek out those details. If it turned him on to tell me, or vice versa, we'd do it and relish it. It's just not a motivator.... but it's not a negative either. I'd call it a mild turn-on for me. We get our jollies in other ways.