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Old 06-01-2009, 03:55 PM   #25 (permalink)
cpl4funindel
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Smile Re: What's Your Advice for Beginners?

Well, if we had to pick a couple of things that have guided us through this journey, they'd probably be :

1. Move forward only at the pace of the least comfortable of the two of you.
-> This one has been an interesting point for us, as the least comfortable of the two of us changes from one situation to another. We constantly check with each other about new situations as they arise, and only move forward once we're both comfortable. It's absolutely slowed down or stopped some playtime opportunities, but in the end the time we do get is much more fun.

2. Don't dwell on things... No regrets.
-> When things don't go as planned (and it happens... No matter how hard you try), don't regret decisions or dwell on the circumstances. This is supposed to be something fun you're doing together, so concentrating on the missteps can only make things harder.

Most of all, have fun together!

Mr. Cpl4funindel
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