Sorry I haven't been back lately....been extremely busy at work.
It seems like everyone's having the same issues that we had initially....finding the guys. We invited 2 guys that I had partied with before who are close friends, and they invited 3 others who they thought would be appropriate for me. IMO, that's a good way to find the necessary men because (a) the two we invited we were already familiar with, and (b) they were careful to invite guys who they knew wouldn't "ruin the party" for them. In other words...their fun was at stake here also when they invited their friends to join in. We might have gotten very lucky, but it worked out for us.
I've had a couple of messages wanting to know if 4 guys was "enough" for me. Personally it was just perfect. I could have handled 1 or maybe 2 more without having a problem or freaking out, but I don't think it would have been as pleasureable. I would caution anyone who does this for the first time to be conservative in the number of men you invite to ravish your body. Some guys that might have to take a break in a 1-on-1 situation seem to find that magical power to keep it up in an erotic situation like this. One of the guys came 3 times before he took a break.

So.....be conservative ladies.