Our first FMF did not go so well. We were inexperienced, she was inexperienced and a friend. She started crushing on Mr. Frisky beyond the sexual way and it took us a while to convince her she was welcome to hang with us and we were still her friends. We found that it was better for us to meet ppl. at swinger clubs or on swinger sites who had some experience to make up for our lack thereof. Just make sure there is a good connection, you get along well and everyone is comfortable and feels ready, and everyone knows what everyone wants from the experience and you will be fine. The "unicorn" is harder to come by but patience will pay off
