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Old 05-29-2009, 03:28 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Default Re: is my co-worker putting me on?

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Originally Posted by Trellken View Post
For those of you that have this reaction, what constitutes an acceptable level of participation to avoid the zoo-factor?
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Where's the line? At what point along the spectrum do we change from being observers at the zoo to part of the animal collection on display?
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Jules and I have twice gone to swing clubs. We obviously like to watch (I honestly don't understand anyone who says they don't like watching other people having sex) and we certainly participate by fucking and sucking ourselves (putting on our own show so to speak). We would certainly be interested in other women playing, either with just Jules or with both of us, but have no interest in playing with another guy.
I switched your post around thinking you actually gave the answer yourself.

The line, for me is the watchers and looki lou's. If you enjoyed putting on the show and can include someone outside your own relationship (male or female) Then your like the lions watching the tigers.

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