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Originally Posted by JM153  I don't have any answers to the OP's original question - How to calm the nerves? However, I do have some advice based on experience. Be sure the third male understands what the roles of each male will be. Our first MFM was with a very experience man who took the lead, but made sure that each of us were equally involved. It was great for all of us as we shared making her feel great. The second the guy thought a threesome was just he and her hooking up with me not participating but only watching. This didn't go well and finally I had to end it prematurely. He was not a good candidate for what we had in mind. |
Ditto, we had the exact same experiences.
As for calming the nerves? That was part of the excitement for us - the butterflies, the nervousness... It's normal to be nervous - think about the first time you had sex with each other! I'm sure it was the same thing.
Just don't hold the expectations to a specific fantasy, and let it happen. Keep all involved, and enjoy.