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JM153 · 05-28-2009, 03:52 PM

I don't have any answers to the OP's original question - How to calm the nerves? However, I do have some advice based on experience. Be sure the third male understands what the roles of each male will be. Our first MFM was with a very experience man who took the lead, but made sure that each of us were equally involved. It was great for all of us as we shared making her feel great. The second the guy thought a threesome was just he and her hooking up with me not participating but only watching. This didn't go well and finally I had to end it prematurely. He was not a good candidate for what we had in mind.

05-28-2009, 03:52 PM	#7 (permalink)
JM153 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 149 Location: South Central Texas Status: Couple	Re: Advice for the First Threesome? - Calming Nerves I don't have any answers to the OP's original question - How to calm the nerves? However, I do have some advice based on experience. Be sure the third male understands what the roles of each male will be. Our first MFM was with a very experience man who took the lead, but made sure that each of us were equally involved. It was great for all of us as we shared making her feel great. The second the guy thought a threesome was just he and her hooking up with me not participating but only watching. This didn't go well and finally I had to end it prematurely. He was not a good candidate for what we had in mind.