I suggest you try this thread:
Couples Profile Reviews for feedback on your profile. Reading the posts on that thread is instructive too. You may not want to read the whole thing because it is long, but a sampling is good.
As far as what you're looking for, of course
I think it's reasonable because it's what we're looking for too. You won't have a problem finding compatible couples. When you do post your pictures, that will help too because a lot of people (including us) won't know if they are interested without seeing pictures, in many cases pictures of both of you.