[DigginIt]

Mrs D and I spent about an hour on that profile. We kept writing, rewriting and then when we thought we liked it; we rewrote it again, lol. Now, after looking at yours (we love it btw – great pictures too), we think we need to add a little bit more to it as we really want people to get a good sense of who we are because that's what we felt when we read yours. When we look at a profile and only see a couple bullet sentences we automatically think that if they are not willing to put time into their profile then what kind of time are they going to put into us?

We are not just about the sex, don’t get me wrong because that is a great part but we love the chemistry when there is an inherent attraction beyond the physical. I personally do not want to just see my wife having sex with another guy. That’s not a turn on for me. I want to see my wife really enjoying another man and that takes a connection to be made, even if it’s on a simple level such as a good conversation.

We use the word “connection” loosely. Chemistry is probably the best word because we are not looking for a relationship but it would be nice to have sex with a couple where we have a relationship type of feel. We are new and that may be naive thinking on our part but we believe that the better the connection, combined with attraction, the better the sex will be because part of being aroused is mental. This is going to sound very rude but honestly I’m saying it to make a funny point and hopefully it will sound that way. Mrs D I will joke on occasion and say something like: “Wow, he/she was very sexy until they opened their mouth.” We can see beyond a person who may not be exactly what we are looking physically if they are attractive in other ways. That includes self-confidence, sense of humor, considerate, etc. We are very down to earth type of people and hopefully our expectations are not unrealistic or idealistic.

Thoughts?