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Originally Posted by truckerbuddy  My thought was .. if there was a cpl that was new in your area would you / have you taken them with you to a party?? not as far as having sex with them.. just to help them get out of the corner, as for a mentor? just someone there that they know mite help a lot. in getting them to introduce them self and get them talking to author cpls.. |
Jules and I were lucky enough to have something similar to this when we first went to Trapeze in Atlanta. Before going to visit, I joined the club's online forum to ask some questions and get a feel for what it would be like to go. One of the regulars was nice enough to not only answer all my questions, she and her husband offered to meet us early in the night and introduce us to a bunch of the other regulars they had gotten to know over their time at the club. The whole group welcomed us in with no expectations or pressure to engage in anything we weren't ready for and made us feel very comfortable and secure in what could be a very strange place for newbies.
If we hadn't had such a warm welcome, I'm sure the experience wouldn't have been anything close to as fun and exciting as it was.