Thread: Wife has morals
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Old 05-20-2009, 09:26 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Default Re: Wife has morals

Sure sounds like you tried to test the water and found it to be, confusingly cold.

As far as morals go, Mrs fun has a pretty high standard and quite frankly, so do most of the swinger women I have ever met.

Without knowing the couple you are vacationing with, or the conversations you have had. I would say, don't make the same mistakes twice.

OK, I have to ask. Why did you have the guy touch your wife while the other wife was gone ?

We don't find ways to go around our morals, we meet them head on and accept how we feel. Sometimes, things change.....

I don't understand why the argument had to ensue. You tried something at the spur of the moment. Then wanted to ask questions and make your point, right ? Kind of hard to argue if your just listening calmly.

Do you feel like you gained anything, from what your wife had to say ?

Sometimes its important to let our partners stand their ground. Everyone deserves that !

Now, you need to act more as a guest on the ground your wife stands on. Respect how she feels and still being yourself, has a certain balance you need to figure out.

That goes for your friends as well......
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