 Re: Wife has morals
The first thing that comes to my mind is that the situation you put her in (in the hot tub) WAS WRONG! And that may be what is standing out in her head.
You asked a male friend of yours who is married, whose wife was present but not in sight line to touch your wife, without his wife's knowledge or consent. That may well be what is pressing in the back of your wife's head. The fact that what you basically did was invite your male friend to cheat on his wife. His wife was not interested in even having sex in the same hot tub. He stopped touching your wife when she returned and could see what is going on. SO now he's lying to his wife (and so are you and your wife). Think about how guilty she might be feeling about what she's just done to her friend.
You need to realize that in doing that, you have basically given your wife the idea (whether she consciously realizes it or not) that swinging and cheating are the same thing. Chances are that this is exactly what she sees as so wrong with a mmf scenario.
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