[NotSorry]

I don't think there's much of a difference between "swinging separately with friends" and being "poly". I suppose it's all in what words you want to use.

Then again, the words you use probably indicate what you're open to, and being "poly" might indicate you're open to more (in terms of extramarital relationships) than someone who "swings".

From my limited experience, the people who self-identify as poly do not have narrow definitions of what it means to be poly. In fact, I think the point may just be that relationships don't have to be narrowly defined, which is what we tend to do in our culture.

The NotSorry household can't figure out if it's poly or not and it's led to quite a bit of tough times.

~Mr NotSorry