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Old 05-18-2009, 06:38 AM   #20 (permalink)
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Default Re: Swingers, Could you be open to poly?

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Originally Posted by Chicup View Post
How does your definition of poly differ from swinging with a good friend?
It doesn't.

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It differs in that we are open to those relationships turning into more

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We go out on separate dates and have separate relationships, rather than together (which according to this board at least, seems to be a central feature of swinging)

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We started the relationships as emotional connections and added the sex later rather than the othe way around

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we are in love with other people, just not the kind of love you would recognize or accept

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we define swinging as sexual encounters without any emotional connection; it's purely sexual. Anyone who regularly has sex with the same partner and cares about that partner is lying if he says he's swinging rather than poly.
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