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when your minds are in sync, everything else works beautifully.
Maybe those that have been in long relationships can explain this better. -EBF [/B]
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I was in a 13 year relationship, that involved swinging and some kinky shit. Everythint was working beautifully before sudden death kinda changed it.
I am just a single male now.
The idea that a drop of sexual appetite with each other was a consideration. We had both screwed kind of a lot of people.
Tht one thing we always did during the play and afterwards was to re-assure each other that we loved each other. In the middle of the intense sex it was super important to kiss each other and re-affirm our love.
Immidiately afterwards we made it a point to talk about it as soon as we were over the buzz of the intense sex.
There was never any room for anything but honesty.
Hope that helps the younger set.
John